I’ve been quite ill the past year. I’m going to try and start blogging again. I have half a post in draft describing my experience post ICU. I thought I’d repost a few blogs to remind myself and others of why I blog. Namasté
“I’m not upset that you lied to me,
I’m upset that from now on I can’t believe you.”
Do you honestly love yourself?
Maya Angelou believes that unless you love yourself, you really can’t be trusted. She quotes an African Saying which is:
“Be careful when a naked person offers you a shirt.”
Because of relinquishment, trust is difficult for adoptees. I know everyone experiences trust issues over their lifetime and most are able to repair the damage. With adoptees, that first betrayal never leaves. On top of that you have no genetic markers, no history. In my childhood I wasn’t able to trust my adoptive parents, and running away experiencing life on the streets as I describe in Finding Heart Horse certainly didn’t foster trust.
When trust is destroyed at such an early age in adoption, it takes effort and practice to regain. Whether it’s in…
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